Meet Rob & Harlem

Meet Rob & Harlem – A Mentor and his Superstar Bro

I just love the submitted photo of Rob and Harlem. The longer I stare at the photo, the more I can feel the joy they were feeling when the photo was snapped so I kindly asked him to tell me about it.

I recently had a conversation with Rod to find out what mentoring with the Big Brothers Big Sisters of Pictou County means to him and his little brother, Harlem.

“Why did you want to become a mentor?” Rob answered, “Having children of my own, as well as enjoying my job as an early childhood educator at a local school, it isn't difficult to see and feel how the fundamental moments in children's lives are heavily influenced by the adults and their peers around them. I wanted to be a positive influencer.”

He shared, “The day I walked into the Big Brothers Big Sisters building to meet my little brother, I instantly knew our match together was going to be one of the most positive, supportive decisions I've made,” he smiled, “Well, I was absolutely right!” I smiled, “It sounds like you two are a perfect match.” He nodded in agreement, “This program provided the two of us a special bond and the opportunity to create a positive outlook, a balance of respect, encouragement, and consistency” he paused, “This is what I would have wished for myself growing up.”

He lit up, "I love this picture of me and my little superstar bro Harlem! It captured a moment when we were ready to start our day with a shared smile and confidence. The smiles seen on our faces are genuine reactions when we're together,” he continued, “It's great we get to see each other often. I can only have hope for the many other children out there needing a mentor. You will be surprised how much you will appreciate your little in your life as well,” he began to laugh with anticipation at his witty motto, “You can create a strong glow of warmth with a single strike of a match. So why not find that match with the BBBS organization of Pictou County!” I laughed too, “That sounds like a great idea.”

Our conversation reminded me that every child should have the opportunity to reach his or her full potential both as an individual and a citizen. By doing so, they will not only do well, but they will also do good. And, who knows, they may even grow up to be a mentor too and pass it on.

I think this quote by Audrey Hepburn sums it up perfectly, “As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands — one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.”